Trying to share out the jobs!
As you have probably seen from previous posts I am a bit of a list writer and a schedule maker. I find it helps me keep some level of sanity in our extremely busy life as a family of five.
As I embarked on a full time job at the beginning of the year I was fairly naive in thinking that mentioning to my family that I would be needing help with the cooking, shopping, cleaning and washing would be enough to spur them into action.
I couldn't have been more wrong.
The assumption is that woman can cope with whatever life throws at her .
In other words for the first 6 weeks of my full time job I could measure the amount of help I was given in single figures.
OH did put a load of washing on ( once) and warm up a meal ( I think he was dirty and hungry).
The kids revelled in their new found freedom not to complete homework and let their bedrooms descend into unrecognisable hovels.
I have learnt my lesson.
Easter has been spent not only resting, but creating a few schedules and rotas to ensure everyone does their bit. We have a cleaner coming to help out and the rest of the chores are being shared out.
I shall have help.
Or they shan't eat.
I know just how the Little Red Hen felt now.
Some of my favourite advice and printables come from the blog I heart organizing , but be careful, you can lose a couple of hours at a time in her blog!
As I embarked on a full time job at the beginning of the year I was fairly naive in thinking that mentioning to my family that I would be needing help with the cooking, shopping, cleaning and washing would be enough to spur them into action.
I couldn't have been more wrong.
The assumption is that woman can cope with whatever life throws at her .
In other words for the first 6 weeks of my full time job I could measure the amount of help I was given in single figures.
OH did put a load of washing on ( once) and warm up a meal ( I think he was dirty and hungry).
The kids revelled in their new found freedom not to complete homework and let their bedrooms descend into unrecognisable hovels.
I have learnt my lesson.
Easter has been spent not only resting, but creating a few schedules and rotas to ensure everyone does their bit. We have a cleaner coming to help out and the rest of the chores are being shared out.
I shall have help.
Or they shan't eat.
I know just how the Little Red Hen felt now.
Some of my favourite advice and printables come from the blog I heart organizing , but be careful, you can lose a couple of hours at a time in her blog!
