Thursday, 20 December 2012

What is Christmas about?

Christmas Crackers

This is the last in the series of my Christmas Cracker posts where I have been talking about ways to keep the costs of Christmas under control. If you want to read any of the previous posts please click on the links here:

I think we would all agree that the easiest way to cut costs at Christmas is to step away from the mayhem that surrounds it all, simplify what you do and most of all enjoy those people who make up the fabric of your life and are important to you.

I am determined this year to enjoy my children over Christmas. So often we find ourselves bowing to the demands of others, spending too much money because it's expected and precious time slips through our fingers. We are considering creating a new tradition next year when our extension is finished and we have the space. Instead of spending all of Christmas with people we hardly see all year, we are thinking of having an open house on Boxing Day for our friends and neighbours who are on their own over Christmas instead. We do have rather a large family and it is difficult to get it right with everybody. Yet again this year I have displeased some by putting the needs of my children first. Oh well.

 I've been keenly aware this year of my children growing up and the innocent years passing. It only seems so recently that my eldest boy was pushing trains around his train track and demanding yet another train story be elaborately created. I cannot even remember when the last story was told, when that stage passed, but it did and all of a sudden here he is at secondary school with a life I hardly know about. It reminds me to cherish those moments that we so often find tedious or repetitive with our young ones, as those are the ones we miss when they've passed. 

This Christmas I intend on watching my children open their gifts. I don't plan on spending my whole day racing around after everyone else. I want precious memories to cherish.

We are spending Christmas afternoon at my mums and everyone is mucking in by bringing a part of the meal. So we can all help, it splits the cost and everybody gets to enjoy time together. Low key is the order of the day. I am really looking forward to it.

Whatever you are doing this Christmas, I wish you a really happy and fun filled time surrounded by the people who matter to you the most. 

Nativity scene

12 comments:

  1. Great post! It sounds like you have a wonderful idea for this Christmas and those to come. Wishing you and your family a fantastically merry Christmas :)

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    1. And a lovely Christmas to you too! X

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  2. Have a happy, peaceful and healthy Christmas Claire. Enjoy!

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  3. Claire, I love everything about this. The kids really do grow so fast. Thanks for the reminder to slow down a bit and enjoy the present. I hope you have a blessed holiday season with your family. XOX

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    1. It goes too quickly - I am trying to capture more of it! Have a lovely Christmas Michelle. X

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  4. Oh, how I agree with "No talk of Christmas before November", it makes it so special when its actually here.

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  5. Completely agree Claire - the kids are growing up so fast it's unbelievable and we muddle through each hectic week that we don't notice it until we take a step back and stop for a moment and it makes me sad that's gone so fast. My hubby doesn't understand why I feel a bit melancholy about it all - is it just a (hormonal) 'Mum' thing do you think? Spending time with the most important people is my priority over Christmas - can't wait to have all the family together on Christmas Day! Hope you have a lovely time at your mums and hope your 'young man' is feeling better! xx

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    1. I do get quite tearful and then stroppy about what I will and won't do!! Otherwise it ends up with us seeing loads of people and dragging the kids around when all they want to do is be at home anyway! I want to enjoy the years when my kids want to be with me - it is flying past!! Have a lovely day with all of your family - sounds fabulous! X

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